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Kaderin Triste Kaderin Triste is offline
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Well, to be completely honest, embroidery, while good to know, kind of isn't my thing. The important things that I like are actually the things that she doesn't like, so she can't ruin them anyway.
But I mean...grow up in a family where if she likes something then it's amazing and she's great at it but when I like the same thing it's largely ignored/unimportant and I'm constantly compared (negatively) to her and have that continue through into adulthood too and it really screws up your brain. It is exceedingly difficult to keep myself from instantly "getting bored with"/quit doing crafts, hobbies, etc that she picks up.
So I do things that she thinks are "weird" or just don't interest her. But I really enjoy them a lot so it works out.

Also...sorry. I'm probably coming off as pretty whiny. XP
I'm kind of tired and irritable from last week plus seasonal allergies.
Last edited by Kaderin Triste; 04-13-2017 at 04:27 AM.
Old Posted 04-13-2017, 04:14 AM Reply With Quote