[Potironette]

I feel quite a bit too young to give any advice but here's a kid's take on it:

Talking to her sounds like a good idea.

I can understand why people would feel trapped in a marriage, but isn't what you really want to marry her? Plus it's not like you're doomed to be unlucky in marriage.

My birth birth dad married my birth mother. Once my birth dad left for a business trip, she had an affair and they broke off. Now he's happily married to someone much kinder and less argumentative than my mother. (My birth mother is now married to another person, and they both talk behind each other's backs while mutually supporting each other. I suppose they were made for each other.)