[McSwiggins]

Guys tend to be as timid as a deer when it comes to relationships and commitment. I'm sorry its that way for you but I understand his fear completely. I know that one doesnt equal all. I'm never a "all or nothing" thinker but I am just afraid of being trapped and unhappy again...or another widower. But I would be asking her for the right reasons. She takes my breath away. She amazes me with every little thing she does. She's gorgeous in my eyes, she's a wonderful mother, nurturing, caring. She's passionate. There is definitely so much love and adoration I feel for her and I want to be with her. But feeling all if this doesnt make me any less timid about marriage.