[Rainbowfox Ari]

Originally Posted by Potironette

@everyone: what ends a relationship for you? (Friends/lovers/family/etc.)

Ian:
Anything can end a relationship. For me, it's more of an acceptance thing. If you can't accept who I am as a person - as dark, silly, fearful, or strange as that may be - that's a real relationship ender. There has to be some give and take in that whole area. You have to accept me as I accept you, or the deal's off.


Shane:
What ends a relationship for me is lack of trust, and lack of truth. Lies and deceit have hurt me horribly in the past, and I don't wish to repeat that experience. Thus, if you like to me - even white lies - I'm going to trust you less, and trust is a HUGE element in any sort of relationship that I have. I will, and have, cut off family members, lovers, and friends for lying to my face. I won't hesitate to do it again if it happens again. Like I said - TRUST is a big issue with me.