Well the thing is really
No one involves my grandpa in anything, except for us because of my father. They would stop over every other weekend for coffee for a few hours and sit and talk with us about the rest of the family (I don't know how many times we would hear the same stories until someone else decided to involve them or call them)
WELL dad's been gone for almost 5 years now, so that's the amount of time they have had less contact with everyone, because you know damn well the rest of the family didn't all of a sudden grow a heart >.>
I wanted to take him out for his birthday, or randomly stop in at dennys and prepay for their tuesday dinner meal they have every tuesday
but life man D: every time I plan something like that life comes up and slaps me in the face with no chances to do what I want D:
And his partner.. "grandma donna" is what she asked us to call her. They've been together for 18 years now but he refuses to marry her. She's a real busybody and likes to share all the gossip with everyone (Including telling my dads ex-wife about his job so she could get more out of his child payments, yet the girls said they got no money from my dad? idk we never had money because we were paying for his child support but apparently they never got it so I'm assuming their mom just took it and never told them.)
So she is more then a problem starter/shit stirrer.
Sensitive information I guess? idk.
So overall there are more then a few factors to this situation that make it a back and forth issue if that makes sense?