[trystan830]

we had a short little chat earlier, and things did get cleared up. we've been married for almost 22 years, i know what to ask. and i heard it in his voice that things were better, which is good.

he still does go go-karting every once in a while, but my unmedical opinion is it's withdrawal. maybe he'll be able to go again soon, yeah. i think he needs it.

but i think most what he's going through is really him, and the way things affect him. i do take comfort knowing that it's not me... but at the same time he's hurting about something he really can do nothing about. and he was the guy who taught me that if you can't do anything about it, why worry about it. (like the weather.)