[trystan830]

i do a bit more apologizing than i should, and sometimes it works. we had a big talk about a month ago, which is when he first told me about the financial sitution. this one, i think, is a personal one - he'd made a friend at the go-karting place where him and younger daughter would go, but teenager things happened with younger daughter (14) and go-karting friend (15), and now hubby doesn't get to go go-karting as he did before. he's finally found a place where he can be himself, and now he can't really. it's a loss for him and i don't think he's dealing with it all that well. but i hope to talk to him tonight. =)