[SparX]

I personally see the biggest problem being lack of communication. often times people will get set in their ways and just expect you to understand this is what they are doing, when there is no verbal communication as such. But also having to have dealt with sensitive guys before who get worse when you bring stuff like that up, I always play the I've been wrong with how I acted and I just feel like if you helped me by remembering then we can both work on it type of thing. Then, you aren't laying blame on them or calling out their faults, but seeming to want to better the whole.

my 2 cents, dropped =P