[Yokuutsu]

How much longer until the car or the loans are paid off? I mean, I bet you have awhile at least on the loans, but if the car only has, say, a year left, wait until that's paid. Since most student loans, they'll work with you more, especially since they can't repo your education.

But also, Idk how much your parents are bugging the crap out of you or anything. Ooooh....maybe, if your girlfriend lives closer to your work, stay there on nights you work the next day? So you're not at home and then some days go back to your parents, everyone gets a break and you get to know if you and your girlfriend are somewhat compatible on living together. It's a balance thing.