[Kilala Mikal]

Dear you,
Yes, I know that you have a thing about wanting to be the one that's in the room when my newest (and hopefully final) little one is finally delivered... Here's the thing; I don't want you there! For my entire life, you've come and gone as you pleased, not caring what was need of you for the life you brought into this world. Yes, you lost one child, but that doesn't mean that you could just give up on her sibling like she'd died as well!! You have always been so quick to jump to the worst possible conclusion about me like I'm YOU! I'm NOT!!! And I don't really OWE YOU ANYTHING! Yes, you've been a godsend to my family over the last 4 years, but when I chose my fiance over you when the nurses told me that only one person could be in the room with me, you lost your sh*t! You told me to have a nice life, that you were gone. I sometimes feel like I shouldn't have let you back after you'd left that time. You volunteer for things (i.e. taking your family to appointments) but when you don't get your way you like to act like you're the only means that these people have to get anywhere or do anything, and that is NOT the case! While yes, you're welcome in my children's lives, don't think that it's only because you're doing for me. It hurts my heart to see you do my son the way you did me as a kid. You can't just show up and "be the hero" then disappear for weeks on end, nor can you be the bad guy. You're a grandparent now. Enjoy my youngins for the role that they're in. Also, I really cannot see you handling the role of housemate for GGB very well. And I think it was really low that you're trying to fill that little old lady's head with the misconception that you're sister was cruel to your mother. You lived with your mother for less than 3 months before you finally said eff it and abandoned her. It was me and my best friend that moved in to take care of Mom when you left. You're unreliable, and when the going gets tough, you disappear. Do you really think you have it in you to take care of an 84 year old woman, who is part of the reason why your mother was a stubborn and willful as she was?? I really hate to see you take over GGB's house, just to turn around and leave her when she needs you most.

--Me.