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XD I understand that. I think people don't see it in my since it really is easy for me to strike up a conversation about any old thing. However when I think about it too hard ( like trying to talk to an attractive guy, or a person that looks like they need help, or likes something I like.) ASfdasfdafdsa fail... just fail, I start thinking about all things I find weird and realize that he is probably normal and would never accept me and probably has a hot girl friend some where. And I just stop talking... ._. The worse is when they suddenly get excited and I am at a lost as to what to say.

Well that may be a bit much... but what about going to a quieter store. Like if you like games what about going to a gamestop and if you happen to find some one looking in the same section as you try asking them what would they recommend to buy? I mean I met one of my good friends at a bus stop, all because I made a comment about an ant pile. ... Some how we got into an existential conversation about ants and life. It was strange.

Well sounds like you need to have an honest conversation with yourself and your boundaries. People will still like you, you need them to respect you. There is a difference. Right now it sounds as though you are being a people-pleaser.

Yeah but you are allowed your comfort zone. I mean you really shouldn't have to adapt too much to a person just to be with them. At least that is what I think.