[Salone]

I wouldn't say that you're selfish. If you don't want kids, you don't want kids. On average, a child costs a quarter of a million dollars over the course of their lifetime. There are also several billion people on this planet, and it is straining to support them all.

If having a kid is a prerequisite to being a friend with someone, then...bah on them. There are people out there not intent on spreading their brood that are also decent people.