[HABIT]

Just giving my two cents on it. It's fine for some people not to want it, but they aren't all doomed to fail or, about kid battles if they do. In fact, my mom and dad were not about making the kids all hate the other at all. They both agreed my mom would take me and my sisters, and every summer my dad would take us, and they actually stayed on pretty friendly terms after it was all finalized. Pretty much the marriage that's actually still working is my mom and stepdad's in fact, even if things were to go bad and they got divorced tomorrow, they could do that because we're all adults now.