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Okay that is different, completely. If I see something coming I can either make plans to avoid it or try and fix it. You sould like you just let things happen to you. Like whelp I know hes lost interest and has been making sexual advances towards that person. There is an inevidtable cheating but Imma wait and see if hes good?

In that instance once again you need to be proactive. If you could have stopped the heart break you should have. You could have said its not working out lets move on or try to be friends.

What you did was help create bitterness and mistrust and now because of one expirence with a boyfriend, you assume they all will be like this.

And if your last statement is true it really makes it hard for you to become new friends with people. How do I know you aren't lying to me right now and trying to get attention? How do I know your not a mom with 3 kids who likes to troll people? I dont know, but I am willing to believe because I am willing to make friends. even if its with a well played facade. Because I have had friends who are theater majors who can legit pretend to be some one new every day.

I understand people lie but I have enough common sense to distinguish bullshit from human decency. You shouldn't shut that out of your life.