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Okay first off how can people even know you are interested in talking if you don't message them? You just said you send out some messages and now you are saying that you don't?

And it all depends on what you say in those messages wheither they are harrassment or not. Clearly if internet messaging goes beyond having you blocked to the point of the police you don't want to be friends with them. That is kind of an asshole thing to do unless you are sending them stalker messages, then I understand.

Honestly there comes a time in your life when you need to learn to be proactive. I do not talk to people I do not want in my circle of friends. Period. I keep tabs on them, message them and they message me back. I make them to see them and we enrich each others lives. Assuming all people lie will never get you anywhere. yes some people do like but you have to just take that chance.