[Umaeril]

Ok first let me apologize for running off and not coming back. Sometimes I can make affecting statements and then I avoid wanting to read them. So I have not read what I wrote again.

Sadrain you have really made me think. So I have thought about what you said about maybe old people want to see the emotion, I do not know the answer to that one except that I am sure it is cultural and differs by ethnicity and one's own inclination to cry or not cry. In our family we do not show much emotion so my mom would probably have said "stop crying", lol. And yeah, the distance is wide, but not so wide so that is a great comfort to me. Thanks for reading what I wrote and replying, I am very appreciative.

Lucid you and your mom are both so beautiful, I mean that, you just look so much alike and have those lovely smiles and curvy eyes that seem to laugh. I like those kind of eyes.

Choco you confuse me. Why would you equate the avatar image with the person? Is that what you were saying, maybe I misunderstood you though actually I read it twice, but I get confuzzled. =P

Asami I think many of us got over male avatar = male person at Gaia or way before Gaia. People like to be different things or to not have people make assumptions about them and so on. I assume nothing. Not truth, not lies, not law or dictum or anything. Not over the internet.