[Lucid:]

My mom hates it when I get pixie cuts because she says it makes me look like a lesbian. But now that I live on my own, I can cut my hair however I want and she can't do anything about it. On the other hand, I do pre-approve haircuts with the husband.

Basically, I find hair to be a personal expression. I respect everybody's right to decide their own hairstyle. I also judge people very heavily on their hair. That's just me, but I think you should be able to keep your hair how you want it. I also happen to think your parents are wacko anyway.