[Asami]

Sorry if this will be a little rant but this is a set up for my question.

So one of my brother likes to take things without asking. And honestly I wouldn't even be bothered if he asked like "hey Hannah can I borrow your kh game?" I would easily say yes. But he never asks. He just walks into my room and takes it and then I look for it and cant find it where im positive I left it then I go on a frantic search for it and end up making a huge mess. It always makes me feel so anxious when I "loose" something. Like if I cant find it I I search for it until I get so angry I start to cry. I wish he'd ask to borrow stuff. It probably the most annoying thing anyone in this house does. I feel like nothing is safe. And everytime something like that goes missing my mind immediately goes to him. I feel horrid when I find it because its bad that I automatically accuse him. But its hard not to when I know he has a tendancy to steal others things. I also get really scared when I feel like he took something. Because he usually brings it to a friends house and either leaves it there or sells it! (What we assume. Lots of our Dvds have gone missing and we know he had them) hes also a kind of pathological liar. So again we never know if what he says is the truth. Hes even lied about the silliest things.

So here's my question
how should I tell him to stop taking my things and just ask? I don't want to sound like a jerk. I legitly will let him borrow anything of mine because he is a good person no matter what his faults are.
Is there a way to get him to ask instead of take?
What are your thoughts. @-@ I literally am not good at confronting people. So this will probably be something very hard for me to do. But is it okay for me to do this?

I just want him to ask permission. ;n; is that too much?

Sorry if I that was kind of all over the place.