[Alpha]

I guess I can throw in a bit here as a gamer guy.

What they are all saying is good advice. There's a chance he doesn't even realize that it is bothering you as bad as it is. Some guys are pretty thick in the head and need to be metaphorically "hit over the head" in order for it to sink in.

I know I've done that before, and I've done what Lucid's husband has done as well. For me it was about space and being able to not worry about any kind of raging or other activity impacting my time with my fiancée or just allowing me to de-stress and "take it easy" for a bit. It's definitely not easy living with someone, and each person and relationship certainly has its quirks. It's all about finding a way to communicate and figuring it out (whether he's "tied up" or not....that was a joke....). I've had my share of "duh" moments when it comes to playing video games and had to have my fiancee actually let me know that it is bothering her by catching attention when I'm not in the middle of a game.

Not sure if that helped any, but it's a guy's perspective on it (no different from everyone else's advice to be honest).