[Lucid:]

Was that with just the two of you or with his family as well? Again, the situation is different when there's family around than when you're on your own trying to live as responsible adults.

Ultimately, it's your decision what to do. I just want you to think really carefully about what you choose to do. Moving in with somebody is a huge step in a relationship. It takes a lot of compromise for both of you to make it work. If you think you both can be mature adults and talk though all your differences and make compromises for each other, then I don't want to stop you from making that choice. You've got to trust that both of you to be able to do that, though.