[Arikana]

Well, it would probably help him if your grandmother was in the geriatric home as well. But if he can and will still eat, then the need is not as great for him to be in one just yet. It's best for my grandmother to be in one as she needs IVs to stay alive and neither my family or relatives have the large amounts time necessary to care for her. I can't wait till late April/early May when I get to fly to Hong Kong so that I may visit her. >w< I worry for her life and hope she won't pass away anytime soon.