[Yokuutsu]

Question: Before the break up, did she know that you were the one paying the bills at the house so your family wouldn't be starving/freezing,in the dark/etc?

If she did, I would suggest not getting back with her, since, if she did, she knew why you couldn't up and leave, but chose not to give a flying flip about your family which would have been a big problem in the future probably if you got to the marriage stage of a relationship.

If she didn't know, that's up to you really.