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Downtown Hobocycle
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Girlfriend troubles
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So I'm not usually one to post stuff like this but I don't have anyone I can talk to irl about this, actually it's more I'm too afraid to talk to anyone about it face to face.
So I met my now ex-gf back in 2011 and we were together for a bit under a year until we broke up late july last year. We got on like amazingly but she wanted me to move in with her but if I moved out of my parents place they would go bankrupt because I already pay like half their bills, so she thought I didn't want to commit to her and it sorta snowballed and we ended up breaking up.
So at first I tried to keep contact but she wouldn't answer my texts, I eventually gave up texting. In late november she graduated from the police academy(which i hooked her up with through contacts of mine when they cut her job) and I sent her a text to congratulate her but still got no reply.
So work's been ridiculously busy for the last month, we've had some guys walk out and I've had to pick up the slack. Been absolutely wrecked the last few weeks and really really down because I'm just so tired all the time and she rocked up with some girlfriends at the restaurant I work at.
So I told her back when I got the job the name of the restaurant but not the location so I know she didn't so it on purpose. We had a little chat and all was good, I enjoyed talking to her again because we were such good friends it felt like I lost a little of my family when she just disappeared.
So enough backstory and here's the issue at hand, she wants to get back in a relationship with me but I don't know what to do. Honestly I still love her to pieces but I don't know if she'll just up and leave again. Should I give her another chance?
Tl;dr? Ex gf that broke off all contact wants to get back together again, don't know if I should.
Posted 01-09-2013, 08:40 AM