[Hikori]

1. I really don't care what people refer to me as. this is solely based on the fast that i've cared about it for so long that eventually i gave up and stopped caring. She, he it, i've been called everything at one point- and then some.

2. NOW this, is something that i don't believe i will directly answer (mostly because i forgot the question) but forthe most part, yes i have problems with it, but that's just because i have problems using the correct pronouns for male people with male bodies and female people with female bodies IRL. Ultimately i don't care only because whatever pronoun i use i will use. My mom actually started me on this because she always refers to me as she or her, despite me growing up and currently being a man. Would I like to respect PGP(prefered gender pronouns) yes, yes i would, but you know what, It's not something that is entirely possible for me because despite english being my first language, pronouns are something that have always been hard for me to get correct at times. It seems and feels like a cop-out to the answer, but i'd be lying if i said otherwise.

3. I tend to be curious but i try not to care. To me it's more of a trust thing, if you want me to believe you are the opposite gender, fine, but if i find out otherwise, i'll probably trust you less, solely based on the fact that to a degree it was lying to me. Mind you, I'll be judging this on you yourself. if you honestly believe that you were born a man in a womans body, and want to be associated as such, that's one thing, and i can deal with it. However, if you're lying that you're a man(or woman) because you want to troll, and get caught up in it, that's another thing entirely.

On the subject of that, when I first joined, i had a female avatar at a gf's (at the time) request, and i feel bad about that to a degree. solely because i wasn't allowed to say "yeah but i'm male"

I still wear female avi's from time to time but that's just because i like how they look.