[Umaeril]

I am just amazed and impressed by all of the answers I have read. I carefully read what each one of you wrote and I am just over-awed that some of you are sharing the stories about your gender, about your avatars that you have shared. I didn't really know that this was something anyone even thought about when I asked. I thought I would come back to maybe an answer or 2 and there are so many answers and all so diverse and honest and heartfelt.

This is an amazing place here at Trisphee where one can represent oneself however one wants too. I remember when avatar sites were not so flexible though most are now allowing a crossover between the male and female items or making some unisex.

It does seem to be the trend though that people like to know how a person wants to be addressed. And we do have this pronoun issue in English so that can be a problem. But on the other hand there is a balance where asking may or may not be appropriate and the answers may be unexpected!