[Gallagher]

1 - I'm female, but I prefer to be seen as male. I'm not bothered with just what I'm called, though. I usually use a male avi, though I often crossdress with him, or swap around the bases so the avatar wears male and female items at the same time. I'm comfortable dressing females, too, but I'm not as good at it. The breasts get in the way.

2 - I assume the same as the avatar, because I've known a lot of people that do want to be seen as what the avatar is and not what they actually are. Though, when they're crossdressing, I tend to assume neutrality. That seems like the go-to solution for staying between in most cases. There aren't many cases where I honestly can't tell what the avi is, at the very least, but that might be because I work so closely with the pixels.

3 - I like knowing, but not to the point that I'll actually ask. When I do know, I'm more than happy to follow with the proper pronouns, but otherwise, I fall into using they/them or rewording myself to just use their name instead. I've always used they/them for when I was uncertain, even when I was a kid and didn't know about gender/sex complications.