[Ultima]

1. Do you have a preference for your avatar gender and if so what is it and why and does it match your RL gender? Just answer as much of this question as you prefer.
I always use feminine/androgynous/crossdressing male avatars. Seeing as how I am genderqueer (not telling what sex I was born though ;P), this is as close to my "gender" as I can really get.

2. Do you have perception issues with gender identification in that if you are looking at a obviously male avatar you think you are talking to a male person and same with female? Or do you have a neutral perception?
Well there are a few users on here that I know are female an use a male avatar (and vice versa) and some users switch their avatars gender a lot. But if I don't know the user, I assume they are the sex/gender of their avatar unless I am told otherwise.

3. Do you like to know the gender of the person you talk to online, for example here at Trisphee, or do you just not care about it?
All I care about is what pronouns to use without looking silly. Other than that, it doesn't matter one bit.