[Helsinki Harlot]

Pretty often. I'm not sure if I should be concerned about how often this happens to me or celebrate that I live an interesting life.

There are several reasons. One is just plain chemistry, you have to have people that are sexually comfortable around each other. It has to be a carefree environment and it has to do with a lot of trust. You have to draw all the lines and the rules beforehand and stick to them. And you have to make sure that it's with people you can look in the eye the next morning, or still hang out with. And physically speaking you have to make sure that you know where you stand and that you communicate well.