[Meizicht]

On the note of blocking and changing my number; I can't do that because I'm waiting for him to tell me he's alright. I told him to try, even if it's on a payphone to let me know he's got a place to stay until he gets a start on his own life, and until then, all I can do is wait. I also cannot block numbers because I have a tracfone ( prepaid phone you can't block numbers with their service. )

She's been getting on his messengers, his accounts because she has his computer and phone. I can't block them in case he goes to a library or somewhere that he can get on and tell me anything.

Right now, I've been ignoring the calls from the number she's using. I'm avoiding making it any worse by not answering, and so far, that's been good. Because if she does get the police involved ( or if I do ) I want nothing that I say to be used against me. Besides, it is not her that I'm concerned about; it's him. He's my priority. So I want to be able to answer when he contacts me.

But yes, I always keep logs of everything anyway. All she has sent me was a "FUCK YOU!" through his yim, and I've seen his facebook active ( which it couldn't be him because he's hardly ever on it and wouldn't be contacting me through that because he also knows I hardly use it as well. ) so I know she's trying to snoop through his things.

She keeps claiming that he's a "vulnerable adult" but he isn't. He can make his own decisions; all he was ever formally told he has is ADHD, and even then, it isn't that bad. This is how she demeans him, telling him he's "stupid" so he can't be without her. Which he knows now is not true. She's been taking his SSI checks, and panicked when he tried to get his GED and a job. ( She didn't allow him to finish classes for his GED because she dragged him across the country to Indiana. She also has been blaming that on me. ) She even had the nerve to tell my mom that he "owes" his life to her. I can't imagine a parent having such an entitled attitude towards their own kid.

It's just a mess. But if he sticks with living independently, it will all sort out and he'll finally be happy. The waiting and the worrying is just what's getting me most. @__@