[Poggio]

Fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me.

As long as you are wise enough not to let her take advantage of this and set boundaries, I do not see the problem in being kind. But there is kindness and then there is a door mat. Your kindness might heal her own wounds if she needs it but next time you talk to your friend, ask him as a friend if it looks like you are getting in to deep with this girl if he could pull you back to reality since he is a 3rd party and usually people in love or with feelings see with rose colored glasses.

I am forgiving but that is different from trusting.