[Mika]

It's not that I dislike it, but sometimes they come out looking fairly feminine. xD I don't have a lot of practice with men, is all.

Ah, it's the food itself too. It winds down to ingredients. If your cat has a sensitive metabolism, then regular crap food will make him fat no matter what you do. The Nutrisource site will show you the nutrience value in comparisson to other common brands. ;~;
It seems expensive but it doesn't cost really THAT much more cause you have to use so much less.