[gremlin]

Usually I simply read over threads in this part of Trisphee but after reading all of your posts in this thread I am actually getting upset myself.

1 ) It is absolutely none of his business to be asking about your financial situation and none of his business to have knowledge about your financial situation. It is rude of him to be asking you about that, he should learn to keep to himself about those things. It is also extremely disrespectful. Considering how he feels about paying for the cat food he may be trying to pick up information about your financial situation to later use you and your husband having more income than him as an excuse to evade paying for cat food/anything else in the future. The next time he tries to ask you how much you paid for something/made during the week/on average have in the bank/anything that involves YOUR money tell him to politely fuck off and mind his own business.

2 ) He talks to you alone or to you and your husband about your relationship? Why is that any of his concern and why is that any of his business? He may live with you two but that doesn't mean that he suddenly has the right to pry into your relationship, offer you 'advice', raise concerns about your relationship and talk to you in private or with your boyfriend. I would keep an eye on him if I were you and I would advise your boyfriend to keep an eye on him as well. Perhaps even advise your mother to too. Does he ever make flirtatious comments towards you or motions? Does he ever seem to be a little too interested in you and perhaps watches you a little too much? Be careful. He sounds like trouble to me. Though maybe I'm completely overlooking this. Anyways, once again the next time he tries to bring up anything about your relationship tell him to politely fuck off. None of his business, he has no right and should keep to himself.

3 ) He sounds inconsiderate and irresponsible. Maybe he shouldn't have cats if he isn't willing to deal with the expenses that come with owning them. Honestly you're being lenient about the cat food situation. Once he realizes that he can slip under the radar and get away with little things here and there he'll probably try to escalate things and get away with more shit. Treat him like a child or better yet like a dog, scold him when he does something wrong and don't let him get away with anything. Eventually, hopefully, he will learn that he can't do certain things in YOUR house because he's the ROOMMATE and has to FOLLOW RULES.

If he doesn't like something? Tough fucking shit. YOUR house. YOUR rules. Either he nods his head and follows the rules or finds somewhere else to fucking live. Don't let someone else rule your house.