[Belial]

Anyone who thinks only in black and white is ignorant. Life is never in just black and white. Bad guys sometimes wear white, good guys sometimes wear black.

Don't let your fears control you, otherwise you'll be in a prison of your own making. And that can stop you from doing a lot of great things. I can't say what you or he should do as I know both of you will handle it differently. If both parties truly want to be together they will work with each other even if one isn't perfect.

If one of the partner gives up, no amount of words can change that. Sometimes when the trust dies, everything else dies along with it. However, again, that does depend on the willingness of both partners to work on the relationship. Even if he doesn't stick with you, you need to learn to be a "whole" on your own.

Dated a guy online, he never really paid attention to me, I felt more like a friend and he always refused to use my phone number. I always thought that was strange. I dumped him because I wasn't happy and I would like someone I was dating to talk to me at least once a week.

Many things that are desirable and worth having don't come without a struggle or a fight. Loss never comes without some kind of gain, but if you never lose, you don't gain anything either.

I hope my words make some kind of sense, it's my train of thought and I wanted to get them out before I was distracted again. (I hope that didn't sound rude, I do get distracted sometimes at the worst moments)