[Chi]

I wouldn't pretend to be happy. I would tell (A) how I felt if I was (B). I'm very honest and open with people, if I have something to say I will say it. And I would hope if I'm being honest with (A), (A) would be honest with me. I'm not going to pretend to be okay.

In perspective if I had someone who was like (A) I would try talking to them about it. I told my ex before about the way he treated me if I felt I was being mistreated and he would change or at least try his hardest. In my eyes, if you're trying to make an effort or at least trying, I'm not going to leave you because of that. But if I say, "Hey you know, I feel hurt by what you're doing." and the response is "Screw you, I'm not changing." then forget that, I will not consider being in a relationship with you.

If you're willing to try, I will help you if you ask. Or just help if I know you're struggling. Effort means a great deal to me. Admitting to your faults or problems takes a lot of courage too.

It seems that maybe (B) and (A) need to express to each other how they truly feel?