[Serra Britt]

The only thing I can really suggest is, if you have a time when you're both calm, to talk about the feelings that are triggering the fights. Tell each other that you wish to let feelings be known and to promise each other to not be offended by the feelings. Don't try to resolve anything right away, it's important to be able to tell the feelings and let the others know what's going on there.

The only problem with this is it can leave everyone rather vulnerable. That's why it would be important to promise to not be offended by what is said. Also it's important to reflect upon what is said so everyone understands the feelings involved.

I hope you are able to get to a place where you don't fight as much anymore :x