[Ginger]

I just typed so much advice and my mouse flipped out on me and closed the window, or something. But yeah, I'm just going to throw something out there.

I had the same exact problem with my boyfriend about the same time you are in your relationship. Try asking him to limit his interactions with her to a social networking site. He needs to respect your feelings and if this is hurting you so badly internally, there needs to be some boundaries set. I do not think it is appropriate for him to be texting her, but maybe that's just me. My boyfriend and I have agreed that the only way we keep in contact with our ex's is by Facebook. We don't really go out of our way to strike up conversation with them, but we'll talk to them if they message us. This has worked out really great for us and I don't feel scared of him leaving me for her anymore, and I am sure he feels like I'm going to stay with him as well.

I hope your talk with him goes over alright. Remember to start off with how you're feeling about the situation and then ask if he would be comfortable with not texting her anymore, but to keep conversations through Facebook or another social networking site. You have every right to be afraid since this has happened to you before, so you do have a valid reason not to trust him or her when it comes to their friendship.