[Serah]

I'm really sorry to read all that and I feel bad for you.
Have you tried talking to him about this? I'm just asking is all.
And do you know for sure if he's spending his money on these drinks and stuff or if it's brother?

You have every right to be upset, I'm not trying to say otherwise.
I had a similar situation with my ex. I don't know how you feel completely but I can understand.

Try talking to him about it avoid being mad or accusing. Avoid stuff like, "You can waste money and time in bars but not with me?"
He'll likely get defensive and try to ignore you if that happens.

Then again I could be completely wrong...
Either way, I'm sorry for you. )8