[Fey]

Okay, guys, we may need to have a talk about what a 'hoarder' really is. He doesn't think there's a problem. At all. Even to the point that child services have been called because of the mess, and he WON'T change even if it means that he looses his daughter and his girlfriend looses hers. The rest of the household just spot cleans/covers things so it doesn't happen.

I would KILL to get him to do a garage sale. I'm sure his girlfriend would LOVE to be able to get to her things that are currently hiding behind/under/in/around his things. Trust me, if it was as simple as having a garage sale we would have that place empty in no time. But first, and hardest, is to get him to see it's a problem. He doesn't, and as such the rest is moot.