[Lioshika]

As some of you know, there was a guy who I had tried to be with for the past year, but he kept giving some stupid excuse why we couldn't.

I'll skip ahead to the new issue with him. As of March, we started arguing more and more to the point where it was becoming unbearable. So much so that one day I finally lost it and said a lot of hurtful things to him. I know what I said was wrong but then he suddenly said "You were out with guys and I was home contemplating suicide". I thought for awhile he was just busting my chops with it, trying to pull a sympathy card. He got very angry and attacking me verbally when he found out I was dating this one guy.

The latest argument he sent a random morning text message out of the blue, accusing the gentleman friend of causing the whole problem (though it started 3 weeks prior to me even knowing the man). I begged him again to seek mental help (as I have been for a long time now) and he said to me that he would rather die in a pool of his own misery than seek help. And a lot of other scary statements on these lines.

I've been contemplating sending his mother a letter (because I only have his cell number) to tell her about this all so that she might have him seek help. I even wrote the letter, but I haven't sent it yet because I want some opinions. Any ideas?