[Fey]

I think you'd really like Saiunkoku Monogatari then, it's a girl that works hard both at home and trying to find a place in the larger world. she gets the guy...but doesn't really want him, then ends up with a gazillion other guys, and doesn't really want them she just wants to do her JOB and what's right. Helps that I adore one of the first seasons 'bad guys' a lot. and pretty much all of her supporting cast.