[Xun]

Of course, you're not alone-- I had to experience something like this also. As far as the two men, you should just forget about it and move on. It wasn't their business to butt into your life and say the things they've said. For all we know, they could've been told worse and felt much more offended than what you've been told.

In regards to that feeling of escaping-- in a sense, it's natural. I want to say, you already know what has happened and it's time to move on in life because I'm sure the pastor would want the same as well. Of course, there will be memories to be had, but just remember to move on. There's not much we can do now.

And just sayin'-- you could've asked your dad if you could stay in the car and just wait for him there. '^'