[Funkduder]

Originally Posted by MandaChaos

I know exactly what you mean by becoming your own enemy. I can say from personal experience that if you learn to accept failure ad a chance to progress and a lost friend as a spot for a new one you will become happier...easier said than done I suppose. I have only recently learned to accept failure, but it still frightens me. If I cannot control the outcome of a situation I fear it getting out of hand and hurting myself or worst the people I love. but if we do not learn to face our fear we will sit alone in silence...meaning it still would have won, even if we didn't experience the possible disaster.

My favorite clamp character of all time is often quoted saying "There is no such thing as a coincidence in this world, there is only the inevitable." Yuuko-San

If we learn to believe that our choices are not always in control of what happens I find that it is easier for myself to accpept failure...I hope this helped you in some way!

It has...I think. Thank you.