[Renata]

I want you to be safe as well so him visiting you first would be the best idea especially becuase your mother can control the situation a little bit. I understand how the wanting to meet your long distance significant other is. I traveled to Airi's the first time to be able to meet her and I ended up at staying at her parents house and things went well. So sometimes your lucky sometimes your not. But I must say him visiting you would be the best thing for a first visit. In my opinion.