[Daring Scylla]

that's a good point. if it gets to a point when you can't stand mum anymore there are a few questions that should be answered before you up and ditch the lot of them:
do you and your boyfriend have the means to support yourselves/yourself alone or on his/his guardian's income?
do YOU have the means to support yourself if your boyfriend refuses to take you in or help you?
are you willing to cause a rift in your family like this? (is this guy worth it basically. REALLY think about this question because if you give the wrong answer and act on it you are not going to like what comes of it)
what feels right to you?