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How do I approach my mom with this...
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MayChan
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I am currently 18 and he is currently 21. He will be 22 this month and I will be 19 next month. I understand there is a huge safety issue that everyone will be uncomfortable with.
I know living with someone is different then just dating, but honestly I don't see a problem. I'm not saying that cause I am lovey dovey with him, it's cause we know each other so well already. I also know a good friend who is friends with my bf in real life up there also.
Just like any other relationship we had a bump our first time around, where we both had miscommunication, I at the time was still to shy to tell how I was actually feeling which lead to me cry to other people instead of him. Thought he was unhappy and thought it was the best for both of us to break up. He thought I was unhappy and saw it better to let me go since I was unhappy with him, but really i thought he was unhappy with me. In the end on that one we still cared and loved each other, just very miscommunicated. After 4 months we got back together after I just stop giving a crap and started being very open. I told everyone how I feel and stuff that I didn't do before, so those 4 months we both grew cause he realized that he should of figured out why I broke up with him and stuff like that, and mushy stuff like I was his missing piece. We stayed together since then.
I don't think his dad is a rapist...but I guess I never know that lol
Maybe this will push my mom into letting him visit me and letting him stay with us instead of wasting money on hotel.
I'll bring a bat xD
Posted 04-10-2012, 06:29 PM