[Chi]

That's my exact thought.
Her excuse is that she doesn't want me to spring something on her at the last minute, when I've never done that...
I think it's honestly because she wants to know if I went back to my ex who's been my only 'real' boyfriend and is the only boyfriend I've had some 'memorable' break ups with.

I see it as, he makes me happy, that's what matters.
Nothing else should.
Problems happen, people should learn to forgive and forget in my opinion.