[Miharu]

Hmm... I don't think I've ever been to one myself, but I've known of my mom going to a couple and talking about them. And then when she heard of someone a few years ago who knew all about her shower beforehand, she went on a rant about how untraditional it was. I kinda see how it might be easier to know about your party in advance, but I think surprises are more fun. >.<