[Fauxreal]

First of all you are worth more than food my darling, you are worth being treated like a princess.

Second, When my fiance and I fight... it's always about money.

Third, do you share a bank account? If so - you need to keep watch on those statements. Unless he's pulling out cash from the atm or something, it should have an itemized list of what is being spent. If he spent things, you'll be able to have proof. Not only that, all banks have rules as to how much money you keep in your account. Example : 'm with the evil known as Chase and if I don't have 1500 in the account at all times, or make direct deposits over 1000 a month - they charge me $12.00 a month. So on top of having no money - they take $12 bucks.

What are your options really? Do you want to drop him like a hot potato? Do you think this is going to happen when you do finally find a job? If he isn't going to share what he has now... is he really going to share when you have your own really money again?

It's in bad times when you truly see people. He's not showing you a very good side of himself. But then again, maybe he's just frustrated?

Also - do you think this is really about money? Is there something else you or he is doing that is causing issues. Even the small stuff, when you live together, can add up.