[*Zane]

what the hell? i dont know the guy but that does seem off, could he be lashing out because of the situation and not knowing how to take it?
or he wasnt watching his money? =(

it seems like he really needs to get his act straight, this is not a way to treat someone you care about.

either way, you need to sit him down and try to get a calm,informative conversation out of him, get answers.

if worse comes to worse,try to start controlling the money instead of letting him do it, before resorting to drastic measures.