[Serra Britt]

Well, this is a pretty big thing it seems. It does remind me a lot of how I can be towards people too, I think I get obsessed maybe a little too easily. What I've done in situations like this is try to spend less and less time with the person, until being apart from them doesn't make me feel needy.

As for the problem at hand though...I'm not sure. It may not have been best to just up and tell him like you did but what's done is done. What you might have needed was time apart, but perhaps it wasn't adequately expressed to him? I don't know if you feel comfortable being the first to break the silence, but perhaps you have a way to show him it wasn't abandonment, but a break?

I wish I had more advice for you Dolly, I really do.